Advent Calendar 2011 – Holiday Travel

Each year around 5pm on Christmas Day we went to Aunt Bobbie’s house, which was about five miles from our house.  It wasn’t far, but it’s the only travel we did for Christmas.

Aunt Bobbie, my paternal grandmother’s sister, was one of the sweetest ladies I’ve ever known.  She had such a big heart and a place in it for everyone.  She left her Christmas tree up year round downstairs in the family room where we all gathered during the holidays.  Aunt Bobbie was my paternal grandmother’s sister and this was one of the few opportunities we had each year to see people from my father’s family.

Aunt Bobbie has been gone for more than two years now and she is definitely missed.  She was a shining star.

Jeanne Louise Smith Armstrong, Myrtle Dugan Smith, Barbara "Bobbie" Smith Roth

Pictured above are my paternal grandmother, great grandmother, and great aunt together on Christmas sometime between 1980-1984.  I believe this is the only picture I have of my great grandmother.  When we were little we called her Great Grandma but now we refer to her as Granny Smith.  A sweet name for a sweet lady.

 

Advent Calendar 2011 – Volunteer Work

I got up this morning with the intention of writing my blog post first thing.  That is, until I saw the topic.  That reminded me that I had a flyer due today before Roundtable.  What is Roundtable, you ask?  Roundtable is a monthly meeting for Cub Scout Leaders.  I am the Cub Scout Activities Chairperson and I am running a major event for the district in March.  Rushing along, I got that done just minutes before I had to leave.  Where did I have to go?  To the school to volunteer.  I was Library Helper today.

I can’t think of any place I would have rather been this morning than at the school library with my daughter and her classmates.  I had a great time checking out their books for them and visiting with the librarian.  Normally I’m the computer helper and this was the first time I got to visit the library.  The librarian was wonderful and we instantly struck up conversation.  I suspect there is something that bonds us nerdy book types.  That’s fine with me.  I let the teacher know that I had a great time and would be happy to be invited back as Library Helper any time!

I don’t know of anyone in my family who ever really volunteered much.  My mom worked hard as a single parent and definitely did not have the time to volunteer for very many things.  I guess you could say that I’m the extreme opposite.  I remember how much I looked up to the room moms when I was in elementary school (I still remember them all) and I knew that’s what I wanted to be when I grew up.  Mission accomplished!

There is a saying in Scouts that many people first have an introduction to their vocation or avocation in Boy Scouts.  This is true.  The Cub Scout program has an Academic & Sports Belt Loop known as Heritage Belt Loop and the family tree requirement for this badge was the very thing that got me so addicted to genealogy nearly a decade ago.  I still have that pedigree chart that I wrote while planning that den meeting for my husband, the leader.  For several years I have been a Genealogy Merit Badge counselor and I couldn’t be happier than I am when introducing a boy to family history and seeing a true interest develop as he finds his ancestors on a census record or passenger list.  That’s what it’s all about!

Next week I will spend time at two different schools on three different days.  One day I will be using hot glue to attach graham crackers to milk cartons for the foundations of the kindergarten gingerbread house project.  What could be more fun than hot glue?  I can think of a few things but it will all be worth it when I see those smiling little five year old faces.  ;0)

Advent Calendar 2011 – Other Traditions

Growing up in a small suburban town with a fairly large Jewish population, I had the opportunity to learn a bit about some other customs.  In school, it was not uncommon to sing the dreidel song, play dreidel, and learn about the menorah.  Sadly, political correctness has all but eliminated these types of learning opportunities for my children.

My ten year old has always loved dreidels.  Even though we don’t celebrate Hanukkah, it’s not uncommon to find him playing dreidel during the holiday season.

Oh dreidel, dreidel, dreidel, I made it out of clay. 

When it’s dry and ready, dreidel I will play!

If you can’t find one in a local store and don’t have the time, patience, or supplies to make one from clay, Enchanted Learning has a paper dreidel  that you can make.  Have fun!

Advent Calendar 2011 – Christmas Gifts: The Evolution of Christmas Shopping

Every year my mom used to take my sister and I to the mall and give us a little bit of money to pick out gifts for her and our grandparents.  We had a lot of fun selecting just the right gift for each one.  While the gifts were usually small, dust-collecting trinkets, they always elicited smiles from the recipients.

My kids are almost all too young for this sort of adventure.  I have one who is old enough but he’d rather use his Mastercard debit card (that he funds by working odd jobs) to shop online.  Being the thrifty type, he does not like to spend more than necessary for an item.  It’s not uncommon to see small envelopes with electronic goodies arrive in the mail for him, many of which come from Amazon.

There has recently been more than a small bit of uproar in the genealogical community due to Amazon’s latest marketing scheme.  In case you haven’t heard, they’re offering $5.00 off a maximum of three items if you use their app to provide information from a brick and mortar store today, December 10th.  According to Amazon’s webpage about the offer, it applies on select toys, sports, music, and DVDs.  There appears to be no mention of this offer applying to books.

Several genealogists have expressed concern about the effects on small independent booksellers.  While I do agree that it would be extremely rude to go to your local small bookstore (or any type of store, for that matter) and send the pricing information to Amazon, I’m not sure that I’d feel the same way if the competitor pricing came from a mega-retailer like WalMart or Target, which I’d be willing to bet are the primary targets for this new marketing strategy.

I don’t know how it is where you live but where I live, there are very few independent bookstores.  The closest bookstore to my home is a Barnes & Noble, which requires a 35 minutes drive with anywhere from 1 – 4 children in tow.  This is certainly not my idea of a good time when it comes to book shopping.  I can only imagine how a small bookstore might eye my children, waiting impatiently while I browsed for hours on end.  I understand that this experience works for many but I can’t imagine how it would fit into my current lifestyle.  There was a time when I spent hours in bookstores.  In fact, there were many years of my life when I dreamed of someday owning a bookstore — a used bookstore, in particular.

I have been an Amazon Prime member since 2006 and I could not be a happier customer.  I have found the customer service and policies to be quite suitable to my needs.  I can read reviews, find rare and obscure titles, and compare pricing at my convenience.  When I am ready to purchase, I simply click on the book I want and within two days a super friendly guy in a brown truck delivers it to my front door with a smile.

This does not mean that I don’t appreciate independent booksellers.  Quite the contrary!  In fact, I usually stash away a few dollars here and there so that I have a nice book fund whenever I attend conferences.  I don’t think I would pass by Jonathan Sheppard Books without buying at least one book.  This leads to another issue that has come to light today.

RootsTech 2012 has uninvited all book vendors.  What’s up with that?  The genealogy community cries out against taking business from small booksellers, yet a major genealogy conference banishes all book vendors from the very place that is their lifeblood?  Was I a little upset that I didn’t book a room for RootsTech before they sold out?  Yes.  Do I feel a bit better about it now?  Yes.  A little advance notification of the policy change to the vendors would have been nice.  I won’t rehash what other bloggers have said.  Suffice to say, common courtesy and proper notice never go out of style.

I digress, I am supposed to be writing about Christmas gifts.  My shopping is done.  It was done before Thanksgiving.  On Black Friday while others shopped, I wrapped.  If you have not yet finished your shopping and would like to find some bargains, I recommend Gottadeal.com for both online and offline hot deals.  The other place that I’d strongly recommend is your local historical society.  Whether or not your gift is for a genealogist, the Connecticut Historical Society has a wonderful selection.  You can never go wrong with locally handmade gifts!

Merry Christmas and Happy Shopping!

Advent Calendar 2011 – Elf on the Shelf

As we’ve already discussed, things have been changing and Santa has been modernizing some of the ways that he handles things.  One of these new programs includes the implementation of an army of spies dubbed Elf on the Shelf.  These little elves arrive at some point after Thanksgiving and begin relaying information to Santa.  By day they watch everything that goes on at their assigned posts and then at night, while the children are sleeping, they report back to the North Pole.  Sometimes they move to new locations when they return.  Sometimes they do not.  On rare occasions, they do not return at all.  If this happens, you know you’ve got problems.

Last year an elf came to our family on December 1st.  His name is Jingle Bell and he has brown hair, blue eyes, and a cute red suit.  He reminds me very much of the elves that my grandma had on her tree.  I suspect they were some of his ancestors.  I wish I could get Jingle Bell to open up for a cheek swab to see if I could find him a Y-DNA match but so far he has not been cooperative.  Wouldn’t it be amazing to find out if all of our elves are related?!  It’s a great time of year considering that Family Tree DNA has a sale going on.  Imagine all the new SNPs that might be discovered during a Walk Through the Y for one of these little guys!

Treasure Chest Thursday ~ Grandma’s Box

Thomas Colyer (Collier) & Jenny Thompson Colyer

This lovely couple is Tom and Jenny, my grandmother’s grandparents.  Jenny is my enate great-great grandmother.  There was a family story that they loved each other so much that they got married twice.   Their story probably could have gone on forever if not for one small detail… nosey progeny.

When I first began my research, I found a marriage record for Thomas and Emma J. Thompson dated May 6, 1875.  Being the neophyte supersleuth that I was, I was happy to find the marriage record and believed that name reversal was at play here, as that was very common.  This worked out well in my mind since their only child, a daughter named Addie, was born in 1883.

Fast forward to a random Saturday morning at the Connecticut State Library in Hartford.  For years, cousins and I have been tracking Collier ancestors and trying to put together one of our most elusive lines.  That particular day I decided to peek at the court records on microfilm.  Was I ever surprised to find a listing for a divorce of Emma J. Thompson and Thomas Collier.  I immediately reviewed the file for this couple and it turned out that Emma J. was not Jenny E.  A small tidbit that gave away the shenanigans was a handwritten note by Tom’s attorney, removing himself from the case, as his client had a child out of wedlock.  Other papers told of accusations of Tom’s extramarital activities, most notably with Jenny Thompson.  This marriage was dissolved on October 9, 1891.

A walk back through the census and other documents revealed that Emma J. was most likely the older sister of Jenny E.  Oh boy, Tom.  Way to pick ‘em!  I would imagine this caused some sort of a riff within the family, as sisters Augusta and Fannie are mentioned frequently and I even have a few of their personal belongings.  Emma, however, seems to disappear from personal family records at that point.

Years later, on February 5, 1914, Tom and Jenny tied the knot.  At ages 49 and 42, after becoming grandparents five times over, something finally prompted them to take the leap.  What that was, this inquisitive granddaughter will probably never know.

 

My grandmother saved a few important pictures and papers, much the way her grandmother did before her.  Treasure Chest Thursday is the perfect opportunity to share these gems.

Advent Calendar 2011 – Christmas Cookies

COOKIES!  One of my favorite subjects.  My mom is a phenomenal baker.  I’m not so bad myself.  I think my mom learned it from her mom who learned it from her mom and probably on back until the beginning of time, with the rise of the first baker somewhere along one of those haplogroup splits.  Whether cookie baking skills develop by nature, nurture, or a little bit of both we will probably never know.  The important thing to know is that some serious cookie baking goes on in this house!

We had a little bit of an “incident” last year during cookie season.  While making the obligatory peanut butter blossoms that are my teenager’s favorite, I started feeling a bit sick.  My husband, being the saint that he is, offered to clean up and told me to go rest.  My youngest daughter apparently helped (eat the cookies, that is) and later came to kiss me.  Right where she had kissed me, my eye swelled up!  A couple of doctor visits later, I was confirmed for a bunch of new allergies, including peanuts, almonds, pecans, and coconut.

What does this mean for the future of cookie baking at my house? It means I am in search of some yummy new nut-free recipes.

What’s your favorite?  Please share!

Advent Calendar 2011 – Holiday Parties

Holiday parties were not a big thing in my family growing up.  Last year we threw a holiday party for the kids and their friends.

This year we decided to use that time and money for a day trip to New York City instead.  That will be an instant holiday party, I’m sure!

We have plans to use our family pass in the morning at the American Museum of Natural History and then back down to Rockefeller Center for lunch reservations, festivities, Nintendo World, Lego Store, and American Girl store.  All of the places my children want to visit and all within a two block radius!

 

Photo by Natashja Valentinjn, “Christmas Tree Rockefeller Center“, July 6, 2007 via Flickr, Creative Commons 3.0 Attribute.

Advent Calendar 2011 – Santa Claus

I think that the 1974 Rankin-Bass production of The Year Without a Santa Claus said it best.

“I believe in Santa Claus, like I believe in love.”

This is true.  I really do.

My son thinks that I’m a freak.  I heard him whisper to his friend (when he did not think I could hear, of course), “My mom really believes in Santa Claus.  Don’t tell her,” as he rolled his eyes in the know everything manner that children do when they realize their parents are totally clueless.

Well, child, I have something to tell you.  Santa is the spirit of loving and giving that lives inside of us.  Besides, if you stop believing in Santa Claus, he stops bringing presents.  Get with the program.

Advent Calendar 2011 – Outdoor Decorations

There was one house… there’s always that one house, right?  The house across from the post office had the most impressive Christmas lights.  My mom drove us by it and told us that they had the same lights when she was a kid, too.  They had a massive star on the roof and I think Santa and some reindeer were involved, too.   It wasn’t quite like the scene from the Christmas Vacation or this “extremely festive” house, shall we say, but it was big excitement for kids to drive by!

Bluebus, "Christmas Decorations", December 24, 2008 via Flickr, Creative Commons Attribution.

 

I have to be honest.  This uber festive gala of lights is not my style.  I like simple.  I am a candles in the windows and wreath on the door kind of person.  I scoured the internet to find what I thought was an ideal outdoor decoration setup and this is what I found…

RAWRZ!, "Christmas Decorations", December 25, 2009 via Flickr, Creative Commons Attribution.

This, to me, is the epitome of how a New England house should look when it’s all decked out for Christmas.

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